Read the megilah with comments on the Chabad Virtual Purim page. It is amazing the B.S. we are taught in shul when we are little about the beauty pageant…about old meany Haman… if you read the whole thing ( which is not htat long) you will see that Haman’s wife was a stereotypical nag and she was the one really nagging him to kill the jews! That the beauty pageant was no pageant..it was a brothel